A wonderful movie
Touching, making you think of relationship and how we get most things for granted.
Also, how we want things to be the way we want them, unable to see what's hiding under the obvious...
A good movie, great music
Sunday, July 11, 2010
Saturday, July 3, 2010
Friday, July 2, 2010
Changes to life
From all I know, there is one thing that is certain in life.
Everything is changing, nothing stays as it is.
Sometimes we wish to see in the people we love as the rock of our life.
Trust that what they are and how they feel about us will never change.
But actually, it changes each moment.
We never love our kids, friends, spouse the same as we did 5 minutes ago, a month ago or 10 years ago.
The reason we are still in any form of relation with them is because we choose.
Each day we ask the question and choose again.
There are days that we want to choose differently. But what I personally do on those days is... nothing. I wait. I watch and observe.
I take a deep breath and ask myself - why? what have changed now that wasn't there 5 minutes ago, a month ago.
And if it is something new - I let it be, see how it influences the rest of the day till that feeling fades a little.
If is is not new then I ask myself - why now?. I talk about it with friends or mentors and continue watching.
I choose not to react
I choose to forgive myself for those "not so pleasant thoughts" (sometimes very much not pleasant) that crossed my mind
and I choose to go on seeking for the next top that will help me cross that valley of blue.
Everything is temporary, everything changes.
It does not make us feel good only if we do not release and we try to keep holding on to the past, to something that is no longer there.
The lesson is to release and let it be.
Let us be
Let me be...
Life, Just be
Eti
Everything is changing, nothing stays as it is.
Sometimes we wish to see in the people we love as the rock of our life.
Trust that what they are and how they feel about us will never change.
But actually, it changes each moment.
We never love our kids, friends, spouse the same as we did 5 minutes ago, a month ago or 10 years ago.
The reason we are still in any form of relation with them is because we choose.
Each day we ask the question and choose again.
There are days that we want to choose differently. But what I personally do on those days is... nothing. I wait. I watch and observe.
I take a deep breath and ask myself - why? what have changed now that wasn't there 5 minutes ago, a month ago.
And if it is something new - I let it be, see how it influences the rest of the day till that feeling fades a little.
If is is not new then I ask myself - why now?. I talk about it with friends or mentors and continue watching.
I choose not to react
I choose to forgive myself for those "not so pleasant thoughts" (sometimes very much not pleasant) that crossed my mind
and I choose to go on seeking for the next top that will help me cross that valley of blue.
Everything is temporary, everything changes.
It does not make us feel good only if we do not release and we try to keep holding on to the past, to something that is no longer there.
The lesson is to release and let it be.
Let us be
Let me be...
Life, Just be
Eti
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